As things would have it I have attained companions of the opposite sex and to be honest after three years of "friendship" with females there is little to no difference between the genders.
There have been subtle changes in myself and I am unsure if they are attributed to my new "friends". I usually do not consider any type of companionship as a necessity but my male friends have some how or another coaxed me from my home every weekend to "hang out" or "chill" which usually results in J taking his shirt and shoes off and M floating around with his headphones and making polite conversation.
I am sure you are wondering how I ended up in this situation but the truth is I never thought I had to see these people more than once but not many things go according to plan when dealing with people for an extended amount of time. It started after school when my "friend" Cam invited me to meet some of her 'guy friends' I decided there could be no harm in this and of course I was wrong. I ended having fun even though I ended up lost with J in Central Park while he was shirtless and shoeless and we were both without cellphones. Cam was worried but happy that I got along with her friends. Little did I know that this one meeting would lead to me consoling M when Cam turned him down and proofreading J's fifty page novel. But I think it's taking a toll on me, I am not partial to being around people everyday and being companions with them apparently means I have to make up for the lost time during the week in the weekend.
"Friends" are inconvenient no matter what gender they are.
No comments:
Post a Comment